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Roniwrote:
Hi, Lisa! I attended your non-fiction class at the library this morning and have spent the rest of the afternoon purusing all the sites we were given. LOVE your blog! Your style is fun, lots I can relate to, and just long enough to entertain and keep us coming back for more. (And I will...I promise!) Love the idea of adding the photos. Now I need to figure out where to go and how to start a blog of my own. Great tips, good advise, and tons of encouragement is what I received today. I'm SO glad a met you today! (I signed up for your March class... Rhonda Wetherbe).
Jan. 6
t211_x Anh2Nowrote:
Hello there. I visited ur blog, its so good.
Aug. 31
jingjinghhh75wrote:
Dear Lisa,
It is lots of fun to read this blog...enjoyable... it brings me a big laugh. it is the second blog i read regarding the weight. Here i just coped some of my comments from the first blog i gave : maybe you won't agree wih me:
why westerners are much bigger... gene... why people are overweight... diet habits...
When i was in Scotland, I observed many people there like meat a lot they got out all veg. in burgers just had the meat burger... that is why in stores there are some vitamine pills on shelves. And all food there are chocolate, creamy things... butter.. cheese... which everyone can put on weight quickly. For cheese, it is good for health but not good for your weight. Last winter i tried some packs of cheese ( i do not think it is tasty) then i put over 10pounds and became 116pounds in weight! (am over 5'5" tall) Even it is nothing to me, one thing i can say, it is a thing that lets you heavier...i have to give it up ...for coke, in UK it is much sweeter than we have in China as well as the chocolates. Beers, popcorns... all makes you possible to get overweight... also one thing i have mention here is the portion, I mean meal portion...as i remembered in Scotland the resturnauts serve large portion which that can fit 2-3 chinese people to eat. I heard that in US the portion is much huge... so imagine ... how this can make u get thinner?
ok, here is in China. we have too much salty and greesy things, not healthy. Since the first store of KFC settled in Bj. and then McDonld's, we started to have junk food... then we began to get bigger and bigger.... especially children... and hardly children can go out to play. computers attract them sitting there ....and their families always like their children to have more instead of eating healthily.
Oh, the last thing, how many of you can go out for a walk or do some activities 30mins after dinner ? if no,try it. here we have a big square and each evening about 8 o'clock many people come out , some take a walk , some dance such as disco, chinese yangge for the elders, some pay for learning Chacha or, some even stand there have a caraok( of course you have to pay 30cents for a song.. people do all these for 1-2hours a day then go home... in the morning many people do morning exercises....
rgs, jingjing75
For myself, now I started to pay much attention to what i have now as the cheese taught me a lesson. I know am much thinner even in China i still need to care. Not too much coke, drink water, have more fruit not bills... if i have fast food, go to have chinese fast food with more veg. but i have to sit at my computer it is my life of fun.... reading your blog...
Aug. 19
Deletewrote:
Thank you for adding me. I love your recipes.
July 16
Masonwrote:
found your blog - love it! I'll keep coming back to read it! I can understand I've lost 60 so far and a good 75 more to go!
June 16
Sexy littlebugwrote:
I love reading your blog. You make me laugh. Laughing is good for the heart. :)
June 11
Shawnettewrote:
Hey Lisa: nice to meet you. i will be back again to read some more!
June 5
Muneca2130wrote:
i realy enjoyed reading your blog
May 18
Ianwrote:
When I get ready to lose some serious weight, your blog will be on my list for encouragement and tips. You're really quite creative in your writing; good thinker. Occasionally I post pieces of a novel I'm writing (e.g., http://havanatorpedo.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!A36EB10BEE9FEAD3!319.entry ), always in Courier New font, like this post, and I'd be delighted if you were to offer your suggestions and comments.
May 10
Sexy littlebugwrote:
I loved reading your blog. I lost 155lbs over the last 3 1/2 yrs and it wasn't easy. I think it was my (then) 4 yr old grandson that really helped. He ran up behind me, ran into me, threw his arms around my hip area (what he could get around) and his face hit my rear. He bounced off yelling Ohhhh mama!!!! Ugh!! At the time I was 5'7 300 lbs. I worried then that I may not be dancing at his wedding. Something had to change. I went from 300 to 145lbs. I feel great but it a constant watch what I put in my mouth. They say "Let them eat cake!" I say “Let me have those grandchildren kisses!" (Much better than cake!!!)
Apr. 9
Tracy MACAULEYwrote:
I really enjoyed reading your blog. I just "created" a Spaces page yesterday and started my own blog (with only one entry so far). It's a bit overwhelming...especially when I see what other people have created for their sites.
I, too, have been trying to lose weight for a while and have lost 22lbs since September 2007, which doesn't actually seem like much since it's been six months - that's less than 4lbs per month. My chronic pain doctor says that it is partially due to the medications that I am taking (5 of them!) for my Fibromyalgia and degenerative disc disease, but I know that I could be doing more to lose weight.
What motivates you? I'd be really happy to hear from you - you can add a comment on my site. As of today, no one has commented on my site. Not that there is much to comment about.
Keep up the good work!
Mar. 14
Delete52Mitchwrote:
![]() All the best from Alabama. Mitch
Mar. 13
Stargirl
wrote:
Hi Lisa!
Great blog! You have a lot of great information!
I can't find a way to leave a message anonymously (sp?) so I've decided to sign the guestbook. I hope things are going well. I saw your post in the thread Dorothy made, thanks and I miss you too.
Stargirl
Feb. 9
No namewrote:
Hi! Just passing through and wanted to tell you that I think you have an excellent blog . Stay strong with the diet diary!
Jan. 29
David Capocciwrote:
Hi there! Good luck with the sugar challenge!
Surfing through!
david
Jan. 15
Shawn D.wrote:
Good Luck on your personal achievement goal. For motivation: others are counting on the outcome as well.
Jan. 8
Michellewrote:
I love what you've written. I'm trying to work on being healthy as I choose my food rather than looking at it as a diet. LOL.
Jan. 7
Teriwrote:
I think I feel your pain - not from dieting but from 5 years ago (yaaay me!!!) when I quit smoking! Hang in there - if I can give up nicotine - you can give up sugar!! God bless you! Teri
Jan. 7
Delete52Mitchwrote:
![]() Best wishes from Alabama. Mitch!
Jan. 4
Danikola
wrote:
Hello dear friends,
I was reading your comments about foods and being on diet forever. I'll be honest with you; I do have a food disorder called anorexia. I am 41 years old and I am fighting for or against that since 15 of age. Sometimes it get to be easier but some other days, no. I do understand your feeling about "should I eat this or not". I believe, in a way or another, that we can be disciplined with our thoughts. I just want to encourage the ones who are envelopped by foods every day.
I did apply one phrase in my life, and it is: "I eat for living, and not the contrary".
Good luck to all,
Line, Montréal (Québec) Canada
Dec. 29
Roxannawrote:
Hope you had a nice Christmas Lisa. I have to tell you that I will try and blog or diary my eating habits with the help of your space from now on.
I've been struggling to take an extra 35lbs that I gained 3 years ago with my little one. I've been trying to keep myself moving and getting my butt to the gym, but you know it wont work unless I stop eating right???? Well ... I had managed to take 13lbs off my chubby body, however this last holiday was a very Merry one for me
Dec. 26
4us2wrote:
I enjoyed pursuing your blog.
I had to laugh at you are not able to anonymously enjoy food. Being the size that I am I too find it hard to eat in front of others.
Enjoy your day,
Mz Karroll
Dec. 23
Roxannawrote:
Hi Lisa, We finally connected! Thanks for the add. Looking forward to your great writting. Have a great day..... Roxanne
Dec. 18
Robertwrote:
Thanks for a great blog! Love your sense of humor. Hope you can forgive my impulsive commentary. Sometimes things just come out. Like the person who said,"I saw that!" Next time you could go ahead and do a Soupy Sales number on a chip. He used to do an ad that said, "Bet you can't eat just one." He would pick one up take a little bite out of it and put it back into the dish. We all laughed of course it was a crazy thing to do. Have a great day. I'll try to find my way back again.
Boba
Dec. 17
Holy Freakin' Cow!wrote:
Very interesting blog. I will stop by as regularly as possible. It's no fun for you but I love that I'm not the only female struggling with weight loss. Thanks for the company.
Dec. 16
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May 30 No hike ... but police academy was on at the gymDid we know how to do anything right in the '70's? Thanks to a very late night last night (read 3 hours sleep), a morning hike was out of the question. But thanks to a quiet house and a 4-hour nap, I was ready to go this afternoon. Imminent thunderstorms meant I was forced back into the gym, and did that ever translate into some bad television while working out on the treadmill! It was Ahrnold or Police Academy, so I chose to watch the latter. Bad hair, bad clothes, and most definitely bad acting. May 29 Gearing up for another hikeI had to back off of such high protein - as good as I was feeling, it was creating muscle spasms, so now I'm focusing on healthy proteins and whole grain carbs with lots of veggies and fruits. So far it's doing the trick, although the weightloss slowed to only one more pound this week. On a happier note, I'm getting ready to do a bigger hike tomorrow as long as the weather cooperates. It's rained off and on all week - very unusual for New Mexico this time of year. I've decided that a 9-year-old is a perfect hiking buddy - he's close enough to the ground to discover the jackrabbits and interesting rocks, small enough to not want to race to the top of the mountain, and young enought to still not be embarrassed to be hiking with mom. We'll see who else I can rope into going with me, but I'm ok either way. Nothing quite like hiking outside - it beats a treadmill or elliptical trainer any day! May 17 UpdateThis is brief but had to share - I'm down 6 pounds from a week ago. How? Dance Dance Revolution for the Wii, hiking, and cutting the carbs back to a minimum and eating healthy proteins. And while the shed pounds are great, the best part is that the headaches are gone! May 11 Spending Mother's Day Outdoors Training for La LuzSome goofus long gone from the scholastic scene decided that the perfect day to hold graduation for our high school was Mother's Day. So every year, hundreds of families shift their Mother's Day celebrations to attend the graduation ceremony of loved ones. This was our year - and both sets of grandparents and some very dear friends put aside their own plans to join us in witnessing the passage of our oldest from high school. After a wonderful (read brief) ceremony, we enjoyed dinner out and a long nap. And when evening approached, we climbed in the car and headed for the foothills for a family outing. My husband and older son took off on their mountain bikes, and my little guy joined me in a hike along the foothills of our beautiful Sandia Mountains. We spied a rabbit scurrying behind some sage, got slobbered on by a very friendly dog whose owner believed that the leash law didn't apply to friendly dogs, and got some needed exercise. My son, who is now nine, made this observation when asked by his father how his hike was. After hiking up the Pino Trail and along the Nature Trail, he said, "I'm surprised by what we did NOT accomplish." He thought we'd get halfway up the mountain in the hour and a half we'd hiked. He was quite disgusted we didn't even make it to the giant boulders littering the trails along the steep climb up the face. Hope you enjoy the photos! March 23 Setting A Goal: Climbing the La Luz by Balloon FiestaIt used to be a tradition in my husband's former company that a group of employees would meet before the crack of dawn at the base of our Sandia Mountains during our International Balloon Fiesta instead of fighting the traffic down to the balloon fields. Why? To climb halfway up the mountain by the time the sun rose and hundreds of hot air balloons decorated the morning sky. I looked forward to these annual treks up the La Luz trail which topped out at the crest of the mountain. We usually made the top by early afternoon where we hiked across to the High Finance Restaurant and devoured piping hot burgers before riding the tram back down to the base. I haven't hiked the La Luz since those treks, but I am setting a goal of hiking up the La Luz to enjoy this year's Balloon Fiesta Mass Ascension in the fall. At my current weight, there is no way I could make it. And so I've had to come up with a plan to get me in good enough shape to hike several thousand feet up the face of a mountain. I met this morning with Lisa Golden, a trainer at my gym here in Albuquerque. She's a perky, happy blonde, and best of all, she's upbeat and sure that she can whip me into shape. (We didn't discuss what the final shape would look like, but that's ok. Anything is better than where I am now - foundering around, completely at a loss of how to get from point B back to point A.) We meet again next Monday to set this plan in motion. She said things about increasing the speed on my treadmill (who knew that's what the up button was for), circuit training and things like working the back muscles, abs and lower body. I smiled and nodded and acted like I was totally on board, but the Fat Lady inside, well, she was having a fit. She's had a hard time adjusting to the word no; I can't imagine what she's going to do with words like "one more rep" and "five more minutes at that speed". No siree, she is not going to be a happy camper at all. But I plan to be a happy hiker this fall, so she's just going to have to get on board and like the program. Because, I, for one, really am excited. February 19 Getting Through The Day vs. Really, Really LivingI never like it when a lecture directed at one of my children ends up condemning myself, but that is exactly what happened to me this week. One of my kids hit a particularly rough patch at school and was falling further behind. In the midst of a lecture about being disciplined, getting homework done, and staying on top of projects, a question was posed that I can't stop thinking about:
When is the last time you wanted to do something really, really well? When is the last time you didn't just want to slide by, get through the day?
Me? I've always lived by a motto of "good enough". If I could expend X amount of energy and get good enough results, why in the world would I bother wasting more energy when good enough got the job done.
Well, that motto got me through high school with a 3.8 grade average (Imagine what I could have done should I have really put my all into it). It helped me survive several mind-numbing jobs right out of high school. But it has kicked me in the bahonkus when it comes to dieting. Good enough and sliding by and not words that are part of a successful diet. And the truth is, when life got hard, I really did start living by the "get through the day" progam (a very slackerized version of Dr. Laura's Take on the Day motto).
When you stay at home all day, and the most intelligent conversation you have is with a two year old and consists of a litany of stop-that's, it can get really easy to fall into hunker down mode and just get through the day. Babies have a way of making that an all-day challenge. But it can also become an excuse to stop really, really living. It can get far too easy to stop caring about what to wear, whether to exercise and what to eat. That poor little lonely woman inside can easily justify a new batch of chocolate chip cookies as a day-long project or a marathon of youtube watching as a useful expenditure of a day.
But is that really, really living? No. It's waiting for someone to come rescue us from a bad situation or a lonely one or a boring one. It's waiting for someone else to tell us to take control of our life and live it for all it's worth.
Well, I now have a new motto. It's I'm going to really, really live... just for today. And some days, on a really bad day, that may include a chocolate chip cookie baking marathon, but it won't be a way of life. It will be because my kids are home and cookies are required for some wonderful event we plan to share. Food will not be an event. It will be a part of life. Because really, really living is about a lot more than a chocolate chip cookie.
I'll keep you posted about how I begin to really, really live. And I'd love to hear from you. How do you plan to really, really live ... just for today? February 05 Beat the Diabetes FairyI don't know about you, but I'm far more willing to stick to a diet for health than for beauty. Then again, I was the kid who would rather climb a tree than buy a new flavor of Bonne Bell lip gloss. Two minutes in front of the mirror was one minute too many - 60 precious seconds that I could have spent reading another half page of whatever novel had captured my interest. And I've found that age hasn't changed me all that much. Yes, my hair (which seems to be gaining a life of its own as I get older) requires a bit more attention, and foundation is now part of the daily routine, but all in all, I'd still rather spend my time with a good book than in front of the mirror. And I've recently started to understand that this attitude has been a large contributor to my lack of commitment to sticking to a diet. I'm ok the way I am, I tell myself. My blood pressure is enviable, I exercise every day, my lab work all checks out. So, really, losing weight is just about looks, and that's not a huge priority with me. Think again. Those extra pounds may not be changing the lab work just yet, but they will eventually. And anyone who remains overweight for extended periods of time is just asking for a visit from the diabetes fairy (and the gifts that little bugger leaves are far less appealing than a quarter under the pillow from the tooth fairy). Extra pounds really does equal extra risk. And thus a new panic has set in to beat the clock. If being chubby doesn't bother you, ask yourself if a heart attack will. And then don't wait for the heart attack. Get busy now while the getting is good! December 25 Spicy soup perfect for winter nights (or afternoons, mid-mornings...)
Creamy Green Chile Chicken Soup
Heat in crockpot or simmer on stove until thoroughly heated and vegetables are soft. Approximately 250 calories per serving (4 generous servings / recipe). Serve sprinkled with grated asiago or parmesan cheese December 11 Why the attitude?I've been waking up at 4 AM every morning, and I'm thinking it's the fault of the fat lady in the mirror. I can't prove it, but I'm sure she is there hovering over my bed just waiting for me to wake up and feed her.
She jostles the mattress, but I only stir and fall asleep.
She shakes my shoulder. Wake up she whispers in my ear.
"Mmmmmgh," I mumble.
Chocolate cake she murmurs seductively. Chocolate chip cookies. Ice cream.
I sit up in bed, look at the clock and groan when I realize that it's too late to go back to sleep, too early to get moving. I grab my robe and head to the living room so I don't disturb my husband.
Now I am not usually a nocturnal eater, but lately I've been starving. I'm sure it's the suggestive talking of the fat lady - after all, I have the willpower of an ox.
I shuffle into the kitchen for a glass of water when I begin thinking about the baking chocolate in the pantry. Just one little square. It's just for baking. Who will miss it. Everyone is asleep. It's the perfect time to sneak chocolate.
I finish my water and walk clear around the long hallway to avoid walking past the pantry where the baking chocolate calls my name. I slouch onto the couch and stare into the darkness, willing morning to come.
You better hurry. They'll be up soon and your opportunity will be gone. Then it'll be coffee and toast instead of silky smooth chocolate. I give the fat lady a dirty look and tell her to go back to bed. She looks at me across the dark living room, her chin held high, her jaw tight.
Make me.
What? Where did this come from? Usually when I am firm, she slinks back to her room to sulk and moan. I tell her to go away and leave me alone.
I'm not going anywhere until I get chocolate, lady. So dish some up, and I'll be off to bed.
I sigh and get up, shuffling across to the pantry. Sometimes it's easier to give in.
I am almost to the kitchen when I stub my toe on the ottoman. I yelp and sit down hard, rubbing my toe.
Oh, it's just your stupid toe. Get up and get the chocolate. Hurry - it's getting light outside.
I sit for a moment longer and watch the sky turn a glittering pink as a new day dawns. The automatic coffeemaker whirs to life as the radio alarm turns on to the news.
I wait for the coffee, thankful that the stubbed toe saved me from losing a battle. I watch the fat lady sulking on the couch. And I think that maybe some Nyquil will keep her at bay tonight. At least until she gets her attitude together. December 03 Designated Driver Equals Less Calories
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Once a year a magazine I write for throws a huge party where restaurants and businesses who have been voted "Best of" some category provide samples of the award-winning wares. And as a contributor, I usually get invited to attend. This year was no exception.
The party is tonight, so we leave the kids to their microwaved popcorn and pizza and head out for a free date. In this economy, who turns down a free date?
It isn't until we pull into the parking lot that my husband turns to me and says, "Oh, by the way, tonight you're the designated driver.
What?" I ask, totally surprised. Did I miss a vote somewhere to get elected to this position? Where was I? In the bathroom or pulling a stray hair out of my chin in front of the mirror? I know for sure I didn't get a vote in this particular election.
"Designated Driver. You know - the one who doesn't drink."
I know what it is. But they have the "best of" everything just right inside the doors. What idiot wants to be a designated driver going to party with free strawberry flavored drinks and martinis and wine and and and... really, do I look that dumb?
I don't think so," I say. After all, it's because of me we have the tickets. That gives me the power, right?
Yeah, I called it first," he says.
I wonder when designated driver status took on the same rules as calling shot gun, but I give in.
We wander through the rooms trying such delicacies as tuna nachos (to die for, seriously), peach and salmon hor dourves (also wonderful) and egg rolls (not so good). I have a bite-sized red-velvet cupcake, another bite-sized cheesecake, and spy a few more delicacies which vie for my attention. And all the while, my husband keeps sampling the mai tai (which he threw out), margarita, and other flavored drinks.
And then it hits me. I just saved myself a pile of calories by being the designated driver.
As we drive home, I am no longer sulking at having lost the dibs on trying out the drinks. I'm thinking of just how guilty I don't have to feel about those tiny desserts I enjoyed. After all, I saved a ton a calories.
I might even win bonus points next year and volunteer for the job. After all, there will always be a best dessert winner waiting just for me. |
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